Your parents are two of the most important people in your life. They care for you, they love you, and they want the best for you. Yet, they can be detrimental to your growth as well. The reason? They are stuck in their old ways of doing things, and they simply do not know any better. Many have determined, based on their own life experiences, a paradigm of living that they project onto their children. We hear them preach on morality, success, happiness, etc. And we see them put their kids through all kinds of extra-curricular activities and we hear them use words like ‘doctor’ or ‘lawyer’ to describe an ideal future of prestige and financial security. Often times parents believe too much in the “safe zone” and their conventional wisdom.
There are so many people that have fallen into the trap of studying medicine or law, trudging through the work and textbooks of material. Only later do they figure out that they hate their jobs and are only in it because they are a slave to money. These people wanted to do something else, but didn’t because it was more risky. Or they never took the time to figure out their own true ambitions, so they said fuck it and became a doctor or lawyer. Now I know I’m picking on doctors and lawyers here, but they are just two strong examples since such a high percentage of them hate their jobs. The point is: you shouldn’t feel as if you settled into a career or settled into some lifestyle. If it doesn’t feel right, you’re most likely correct by siding with your intuition. So discover what you want out of life, don’t settle, and fuck the parents. Never live your parents’ dream.












